If you’re lucky, your mother will be your biggest supporter on your wedding day! She’s likely been dreaming of this day for as long as you have and is thrilled to be a part of the festivities. This means she’ll definitely want to be present at your bridal appointment!
Now, given the generational gap, there might be some concerns about your mom either not liking the dress you pick or having a different idea in mind totally when it comes to finding the perfect dress. The good news is that we’re experts in navigating this experience, and today, we’re going to offer our top tips to help navigate wedding dress shopping with mom! Because ultimately, even those with the closest bond with their mom might have some issues when it comes to wedding dress shopping. Let’s get into it!
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Set The Vibe for The Day
Turn this shopping trip into a whole moment for you and your mom! Maybe pick a spot to have brunch or lunch beforehand to connect a bit and chat about what your expectations are for the shopping trip. It’s a great way to set aside intentional time with your mom to make this as special as it can possibly be. And after your appointment, maybe go somewhere for a quick drink or ice cream to discuss how everything went!
Talk About The Budget Beforehand
If you and your mom have different ideas about how much to spend on your wedding dress, it’s important to find a compromise. You might need to adjust your budget for other wedding expenses to accommodate the cost of your wedding dress. Work together to create a budget that you can both agree on.
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Be Upfront About Your Wants & Needs Ultimately, this is your special day. You should be clear about what you’re looking for before you go shopping by having an open, honest conversation with your mom. Talk about your style preferences and anything that your wedding dress absolutely must have! This will give your mom some insight into what you’re searching for so she doesn’t feel blindsided when you start trying on dresses. That way she has something to work off of as she watches you try them on and can keep your expectations at the top of her mind. |
Ask for Her Opinion
Even if you know exactly what you want, it helps to make your mom feel included by asking her for her thoughts on what you should wear. She might give you some helpful advice or thoughts that you had not considered before, which is always helpful!
However, it’s common for brides and moms to have opposing views when it comes to “the dress.” Even if what she’s looking for isn’t exactly what you want, it’s nice to hear each other out. Encourage your mom to be honest (yet kind) and make sure she knows you value her input.
Take Her Comments Into Consideration
You should stay open minded when hearing her feedback - after all, you brought her here for a reason! Her opinion is important, and you should consider her suggestions. She might notice things about a dress before you do and point out something that might be crucial to finding the perfect gown.
Remember that you’re shopping for a gown to wear on the most special day of your life. Focus on the excitement and anticipation of your wedding day, and remember that this is your decision!
Here at One Enchanted Evening, we want to help you find the perfect dress and have a wonderful shopping experience. Book your appointment with us today!